Healing parental wounds and energetic blockages. 

Usually the feeling of not belonging, and being rejected is directly related and born from fears and behaviours learnt in childhood. For this reason, it is my belief that forgiving ones parents is a huge and final step in releasing energetic blockages and reaching enlightenment and wholeness. The true meaning of a curse is an energy blockage that becomes stored in the collective unconscious, and transferred from generation to generation. It is highly likely that parents who scarred their children in any form, mentally, emotionally, or physically, only did so because this is what they themselves were taught to do, this is most likely to do with the ways that they were raised and the methods that were passed on to them. People who can not move on from pain accumulated in childhood and forgive parental wounds, tend to go on to perpetuate these same mistakes/templates with their own children, and thus the template of hate, abuse, control, and misery is stored within that DNA group. This is why even those who say, ‘I never want to be like my father’, for instance, will still go on to become this person. When one understands that the pain that has followed them relating to childhood stigma, is also carried by their parents, they may begin to look at things from a more compassionate, understanding perspective. Consequently, this means that the parents of these children are also deeply suffering, although unfortunately for them, they have not found productive methods to deal with their pain, or, in many cases, they are not even aware of the roots of their underlying behaviours and struggles. The baggage carried on through to later relationships, and social behaviours is with no doubt heavy, and a difficult burden to carry, but the only reason that it exists, is because deep down, either in the subconscious or unconscious mind, this individual truly believes all of the derogatory things said, or done to them. If their case of abuse was verbal, and they were constantly informed that they were wrong, or not good enough, they may have internalised this to be concrete truth, and thus a self fulfilling prophecy is born, where this individual truly begins to behave in ways that adhere to the idea that they are always wrong, or not good enough. Similarly, all of the friends, experiences, and situations that they attract will also reflect these deeply embedded beliefs, as this shapes the way that they view and experience the world. Therefore, it is absolutely imperative that in the journey toward wholeness and enlightenment, all carriage taken from negative childhood experiences is released. These are stored within the ego, and the ego constantly seeking affirmation and reassurance, will take/absorb information that backs these beliefs from every single scenario. Understanding that parents who abuse, hurt, or mistreat us, are also in deep pain, and are simply sharing their inherited energy, is freeing to those of us who took on these beliefs thinking that they were in anyway directly as a result of us. It is time to remodel the way that we think of, and see ourselves, understanding that the only assertion of who we are, is ourselves, and the control that we exert over our own lives. Blessed be sacred souls ~”Cindy Anneh-bu

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From a very early age, it was clear to see that my path was one paved with difference. Inspiration, intuition, and imagination gripped me long before I could find my feet. I walk the life path of 7, so I am irreversibly bound to the realm of mysticism, spiritualism, and esotericism. I do not belong to this world, for I am a 'tween', always in between worlds. I am the commander of serpents, belonging to the glorious, and forbidden 13th zodiac of ophiuchus. Hidden in secrecy, to one day return as the divine feminine awakens. Love, is my speciality, and has governed my existence. I now use a combination of intuition, natural healing ability, astrology, psychology, sociology, and numerology to bring clarity, healing, and understanding to all. With the energy of ophiuchus running through me, I could never turn away from the path of healing, nor teaching. Not only does ophiuchus represent healing, but also the crevices of the dark shadows that we must crawl through to find our path to healing, in other words, the shamanic process of death, and re-birth, which has pretty much been the summation of my existence thus far. Long gone are my days of depression, I have re-claimed my divinity, and I desire nothing more than to help you to also claim yours. Not only the seeker, I am also the lover. Part of the many trials that I have endured upon this empathic journey, are that of heart break, and abandonment consciousness. For this reason, I have become an advocate for healthy loving relationships, and the harmony between the two sexes. This has taken me on a deep quest, to uncover ancient old secrets, and deeply entrenched beliefs, about man, about woman, and what this reads about where we are to. My eternal life drive and motto revolves around this simple theory, 'Where there is an outcome, there has existed a cause'. My particular areas of interest and expertise lie with sociology, psychology, spiritualism, philosophy, and literary, and creative writing. As I have a deeply intense desire to both serve, and aid humanity, I have naturally been drawn toward topics that have provided me with a more in depth account of societal behaviour, and as it stands, human kind. My roots are as deeply rooted as they can be, stemming from Ghanaian parents, who were raised, and both skilled in the art, and knowledge of superstition, and divination wisdom, it is no surprise that the blood flowing through my veins compels me to do such work, so relentlessly. Unlike other bloggers, this work featured here is not a mere hobby, it is more than just my livelihood, it is the calling of which i cannot ignore. Another prominent focus of mine, is mental illness. Not comfortable, nor fully sold with the western idealisms of the implications of such, i seek research, personal experience, and observation to prove, that many mental illnesses hold spiritual connotation, particularly as the mind is an avid translator of spiritual energies. Follow me on this journey as i discover myself, retrace my roots, fall deeply in love with my heritage, and finally accept my awkward, unorthodox societal position. To book one of my services, and allow me to guide you back to the soul, email me via cindyanneh-bu@hotmail.co.uk I offer dream interpretation, tarot reading, therapy, numerology readings, and see through the eyes of the lover.. To contact me across all of my platforms, follow me on instagram to keep up with my latest quotes, and mystically inclined photography @spiritualpoetess_ To keep up with my snappy, sassy, and spiritually laced motivational tweets, find me on twitter @spiritualpoet_ Facebook like page https://www.facebook.com/Twinflameandshamanchronicles

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