Do you hate him? Because i, can not..

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As much as i wish to hate the narcissistic man, a part of me just cannot bring myself to loathe him in the ways that i should. A part of me sympathises with him, with a deep part of his pain that he cannot, and has not seemed to make peace with, for he knows not how.

In feeling, and thinking that his masculinity is reliant upon his denial of the issues that he has faced upon his life, he has become a mirror of his own darkness, destined to walk this earth carrying with him the very thing that he despises.

For within him, i see the empath, the empath who never got to be an empath because we belong to a society that emotionally stunts, and persecutes men. In not becoming the empath, he instead becomes the socipath, unable to heal his own pain, or even feel it in the ways that he should..Instead suppressing it, and allowing it to grow into poison.

He is cruel to the world, because he is cruel to himself.

He shows no compassion, because he has been shown none.



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2 thoughts on “Do you hate him? Because i, can not..”

  1. shows no compassion, because he has been shown none.’

    Makes me so sad to read this but what to do with a suspected narcissist when showing compassion will get you likely sucked back into their world of lies manipulation and pain ?

    1. You must learn to show this compassion from a distance, enabling them to understand that you do care for their well being, but you will not become a pawn in their game for manipulation! Set clear boundaries and always be true to what feels good for you! Xxx

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