Twin flames, a life after separation, and awakening to the realisation that the union was always about you.

I have received an alarming amount of testimonials recently from twin flame females (those embodying mostly the feminine energies within the union), who have awakened to the idea that they must thrive, and live a life, with, or WITHOUT their twin flame. Much pining has been done from the time that twin flames have been made aware of each other, to now, and most of it has been at the hands of what is commonly regarded as the twin flame stayer, once again, typically being the one embodying the most feminine energies. In many cases, this too can be a man, who is apart of the divine masculine aspect, and therefore holds a significant amount of feminine energy – as I have stated before, this is not limited to gender, it is more about energy, and the positions of chaser/runner may also alternate over the years.

The term twin flame very much provides the illusion that this experience is centered around the ‘relationship’ between the two, and the romantic aspects of it. This Union is not an ordinary relationship, and could never fit into the traditional modes of 3D romantic, and attachment based relationships. This Union is about spirit. This Union, is about energy. This Union, is about you.

The twin flame Union is the ultimate mirror that is held up to your soul, to allow you to witness all of the holes that have been poked inside of you from trauma that you have endured. This is why not everybody has a twin flame. Not everybody has enough trauma, and enough responsibility relying on them clearing this trauma, in the same way that twin flames do.

Often, in order to allow the twin flame female to realise that this Union is truly about her, and truly about her efforts to heal, and access a deeper truth, the twin flame male will be removed from her. (Please keep in mind that I use the terms her, and him in references to energy, and not gender, and these terms are stereotypical, for the purposes of convenient classification and not fixed). If she continued to refuse to acknowledge that this experience, and this journey is about self love, she will continuously be triggered with her deepest wounds, and her greatest insecurities.

Nobody outside of you can offer you the validation, or the acceptance that you seek. This must come from yourself, and you must seek within yourself for the reasons that you attach such great importance, and necessity to this individual returning to you.

The moment that you acknowledge this, is the moment that you set yourself to freedom. Freedom of mind, freedom of the heart, and freedom of the soul. You are no longer chained to an idea or something, and neither is your worth revolved around the outcome of a specific scenario.

It is very possible, extremely possible rather to live a life after a twin flame separation. A fruitful life, an inspiring life, and a life filled with love. You will eternally be connected to your twin flame, and the energy that you created between the two of you will likely always cause you to cross paths with one another, and continue to make communication over years to come, but even this, should not deter you from pursuing a life of enrichment post twin flame Union.

I am NOT under any circumstances claiming that this is the date for all twin flames, or that all twin flames will not experience re-Union in this life time. Even those who do, have done so by implementing changes within themselves. It is all dependent on the individual journey, and life plan of the souls. Some twin flames go through their healing process together, as a unit. Others, require this time of separation, and individual evolution, and probably would not complete their self searching/service in any other way. This is simply an intuitive message for those twin flame stayers who are growing into the self realisation that they truly can do this, without needing recognition, nor immediate reciprocation from the one they shared this divine union with, and there are plenty of opportunities for them to find, and experience love, long after they have ‘separated’.


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Twin flame reading sample, and testimonial. Where love and numerology meet.

As part of the twin flame reading, I provide a mini analysis of both partners birth dates to determine any common ‘sacred Union’ numbers. Good indications of which are the presence of the numbers 8, 11, or 22, though not limited to. A 5-6 tarot card selection is also drawn, dependent on how many questions that the client requires to be answered. Generally, clients provide their own questions, but I am happy to assist if necessary. 

You have amazing energy, and amazing spiritual attuning, and I am ecstatic to tell you, that the union that you are dealing with is indeed a DIVINE Union, and I found something very interesting when assessing your birthday sequence, and numerological numbers!

Your birth date – 8 1   
                              1 (1+7)= 8 

You both have the appearance of both the numbers 1, and the numbers 8 within your birth sequence. 

The number 8 is a prominent twin flame number, and a number of heavy karmic, and spiritual energy. It represents infinity, and the coming together of two separate energies, or whole energies, as represented by the shape of the number, and the two o’s uniting as one source – one energy.

This coming together is symbolic of the way that twin flames must both be whole, and complete, before coming together in unison, and unity.

You also both have the number 1 present, which is also indicative of the spiritual channeler, the leader, and the spiritual channel. Number 1 has lessons being transported to them, usually in the form of sharp awareness, acute intuition, and in many cases intense, and obsessive over thinking. 

If anybody is going to solve an age old problem, it is somebody with the number 1 in their birth chart, as they will search relentlessly within their mind for answers.

It is my belief that the collision of the two of you in one another’s lives, sparked memories, emotional, and mental digging, and many lessons, about the past, and the present, to erupt.

Sure, it may have high intensity, and high highs, and low lows, but this is exactly where the two of you must find, and maintain balance! At all costs. There is no greater Union, or experience that will teach you this. This is all about stop, look, and LISTEN!

Your life path number.
Life path 9.You are the life path of 9, the compassionate, spiritual, creative, and artistic healer, and it shines through your skin, your smile, and your eyes. Your energy is Very playful, very child like, and you have a very colourful, and vibrant view of life. This is amazing, do not lose this, as it Spurs on your creative and artistic nature.

Your inner child makes you very open, and receptive to others, and this has likely caused you both great pain, and disappointment on your journey, but you have a very, very strong heart, and a very strong spirit, and you are not the number 9 who will close their heart, and develop narcissistic tendencies due to all of the pain that you have experienced. 

Pain, that is something very, very familiar, and frequent to the life path 9. Pain from childhood, that is most likely related to abandonment, neglect, and rejection, even if this happened on an unconscious level.

Most 9’s grow sceptical of people, and build up walls, as soon as they recognise that the world does not share their idealistic, or caring nature, but ultimately, you are a healer, full of healing abilities, and potential that will grow once you settle into yourself. You need to learn to trust yourself more, because you are a natural leader, and you are not to play any secondary position in this journey called life.

The world so desperately requires your light, loving and playful energy, as so many people lead dark lives, and cannot see the light of their situation. You are the light in many situations. And all those who you have graced have been blessed by your inspirational energies, and healing qualities. 
Use your vision to heal the world, to heal yourself, and most importantly to heal your family line. You are apart of the divine feminine collective, a pure crystal being, the divine mother, and your destiny does lie with nurturing, nature, and blossoming ‘flowering’. You are the sun. And anything that is dark, will rise to the surface, to life, with you.

You are a blessing, to your divine counterpart.

Your love, is the life path of 10. This represents nature, death, rebirth, the beginning, and the end, the alpha, and the omega, and the coming together of feminine, and masculine energies. The 1 is a masculine number, and can appear to be a phallic symbolic for the main reproductive organs, whilst the 0 can be representative of the womb, of the portal through which life enters.

Your tarot reading –

1. What is in my loves heart for me? 

Page of pentacles.

The page of pentacles is a positive card to receive in a tarot deck! This page is considered a messenger of sorts, and he pushes through with his message with determination and enthusiasm.

Your love sees you as a new beginning, he recognises that if he were to nurture this relationship, and truly give his focus to it, it will grow and blossom into a love that he could have never imagined. He also recognises that you are a message in his life, a spiritual message, and your arrival has forced him to want to become a better version of him self, and pursue his path and his ambition with grace. 

2. What is on my path for love?

Nine of swords.

The nine of swords does seem like an alarming card to draw in a deck, as it points to worry, anxiety, doubt in regret, but as you are now aware of its emergence, you may do your best to combat these particular feelings from manifesting. 

Because you have such a restless mind, and such a finely tuned receptivity to even the slightest impulses, you may often find yourself splitting hairs, and losing your mind with over thinking, or doubting your lovers efforts/abilities to stay with you. As I mentioned, abandonment and the fear of is a theme within life path 9’s, and this also mirrors a fear that your love has. Of being fooled. Tricked. Unappreciated, and/or exploited.

These very worrisome thoughts actually cause the manifestation of negative experiences. You must try to silence the doubts and the fears within your mind surrounding this love. If you judge this love by the loves in your past, then it will meet the same fate as those of your past. Premature ending.

Release the blockages that cause you to fear abandonment in love. They are in concrete, and will only manifest if you draw them to you with your focus, and behaviours.

3. What is influencing my loves behaviour?

The hanged man.

The hanged man represents a lack of control, a willingness to appear vulnerable, and allowing ones self to be suspended in time, and space. These are all things that your love is absolutely terrified of, and reluctant to allow. He fears that if he ever fully allows himself to be vulnerable, and to be suspended in air in this way, he will find himself hurt, and also meet the same fate that he has always faced – abandonment, and overall rejection.

Whilst he is also stuck in his mind, he spends great time calculating his every move, and is very concerned with the way that he appears on the outside. If he finds that he is being under appreciated, or he senses that he may not have your full attentions, he will immediately pull back and feign disinterest to get you back where he wants you. Yes, this does sound manipulative.

But to him, this is how he has learned to protect himself from the many dangers and offences in life.

4. What can I do to heal?

The chariot.

The chariot is a card all about charging through with determination, and steady progress. This particular deck for this card depicts a man who appears to be some sort of Pharaoh, charging through with his two noble, and faithful creatures. To me, this also indicates the integration, and working together of two pairs. In this instance, your masculine and feminine energies. Whilst you are very feminine, masculine energy will offer you the ability to move forward in life, and expand and capitalise on your art, regardless whether your emotional, and romantic love is unfulfilling or not. In the past, you have neglected other areas of your life for love.

Now, this card asks you to use the many highs and lows in love to inspire you, to motivate your art and your life goals, rather than to stagnate them.
5. What is the best course of action to take?

Five of pentacles.

The five of pentacles is a card that represents financial
Loss, spiritual loss, and emotional loss. This card serves as a warning to not neglect yourself, even in times that love is difficult or stressful. The best course of action to take is thorough internal fulfilment, so that no matter what appears in your love life, you do not become destroyed easily, and allow yourself to become deprived. It is very important within this Union that you maintain steady energy, as anything other wise would set you backward in your many lessons.

Use your art, and your creative expression to enrich you in times of difficulty. You can not allow yourself to suffer or to fall in love any longer. You must learn to rise in it. And in doing so, you will also benefit your love, and teach and challenge him how to grow, and how to hold himself higher in unconditional love, and bonds. The focus on other pursuits will also allow you to release the desire to control him, or outcomes with him.

6. Would it be more beneficial to move back or stay here?

The tower.

The tower card represents complete destruction, and the tearing down, and rapid change of your current surroundings. In terms of staying, or eliciting change, I would say that this card points to moving back. Tearing apart your current world, and experiencing a new dawn. Typically, when we think of ‘moving back’, it seems as if we are regressing to the past, but if your current reality has grown stagnant and unfulfilling, then i believe that you recognise that you have left unfinished business in your old town.

Perhaps your arrival will also shake, and stir things up for others, and allow you to collect more clues about who you are, and who you have become.

Seek Cindy.

Testimonial – Hi, Cindy…

All I can say is W O W !!!!! Thank you so so much!! You are truly so talented at what you do & I appreciate how thorough and in-depth you went with all my information. I also love how even though I paid for two separate readings you so effortlessly wrapped the information from both together!! So helpful and so RARE!! You are a gem.

A lot of what you wrote me mirrors a lot of what I have been feeling within myself (about myself and my love), but I have been going through SUCH a huge spiritual awakening for the past 4ish months that I can’t quite remember what is real or not…My love and I are not talking at the moment (for about a month), cuz I know we both have shit to work through on our own and it was so so helpful to not only get reflected where he is at but also MY shit that I need to work on!! Yes !! I appreciate you being so honest, oh and I LOVEDD the 8-1 1-8 birthday pattern you pointed out to me! So amazing.

I was going to write down just the “highlights” of your reading in my journal, but I ended up writing the whole thing LOL it all is just too good. Thank you for the comfort and the affirmations. I am going to be recommending you to all I know and thank you for being who you are and sharing your gifts with the world!!! So grateful to have connected with you. Happy full moon :))


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