False twin flames, (the karmic attachment from hell), co dependency, and attachment theory.

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Although this article can be enjoyed as an individual piece, i encourage for satisfactory consumption that all should attempt to view both this page, and the false twin article available here. – Author’s note.

 

A false twin flame arrives to you at the time that you need to learn a lesson in love the most. The false twin’s arrival is no mistake, and is no coincidence at all. The energies that the both of you embody, call out to one another, from one karmic dissatisfaction, to the next.

In seeking out these individuals to play out our karma with, we attempt to understand our own traumas, our behavioural models, and to make sense of who we truly are. Usually, this relationship type is composed of an empath, (the true twin flame victim), and a narcissist, (the false twin flame).

In the event of their collision, both empath, and narcissist are unsure of themselves. The only difference is, the false twin is willing to manipulate,  toy with the emotions of, and display energy vampirism, in their attempts to establish, and understand themselves, whilst the twin flame victim, in an attempt to quench their gaping emotional wound, and understand themselves, will attach viscously to the fallacies of this relationship.

All that the twin flame victim truly wants is to give love, and to be loved, well at least this is what they believe on a conscious level. On an unconscious level, they fill their energy field with thoughts such as, ‘I am not good enough for love’, ‘I am not deserving of love’, and ‘nobody will ever love me’.

More than likely, this is an imprint that they may have received from one, or both  of their parents, either a parent of theirs whom too feels this way, and struggles with co-dependent issues, or a parent whom indirectly enforced such beliefs by failing to meet the child’s needs for attention, recognition, or affection.

Subconsciously, the false twin also wonders if they are worthy, or deserving of love, but this is a query that they would much rather push below the surface, failing to pay recognition to it, instead developing a false narcissistic persona in which they are the greatest, the most intelligent, and that the twin flame victim should be lucky to even be with them! This false sense of self, and inflated ego is how the false twin protects themselves from the abandonment, and neglect that they so fear.

The same wound.

Both of these souls hold the same inner core wound, and it is this wound that their relationship, and their karma is built around. All of the transactions within the relationship will see them being triggered by, and responding to these internal models.

Because the false twin fears being abandoned, and having to face his, or her deeply buried feelings of neglect, and abandonment, they will create a distance between themselves, and the twin flame victim, more than just an emotional distance, a physical distance in which, they are the ones who determine when the two get to see each other, for how long, and where. This allows the false twin to feel as if their happiness is not dependent upon seeing the twin flame victim, and ensures that they can never be left feeling disappointed, or rejected, should the twin flame victim choose to cancel, or opt out of plans. This can never actually happen.

Because the scheduling of time spent together is so erratic, scarce, and spontaneous, the true twin will come to cherish any time spent together, and will surely never miss a date, or appointment, even at the expense of their own experience. The false twin becomes a drug. This addictive, elusive, and fixating drug, and because you never know when you are going to get it, you are CONSTANTLY on the edge, waiting for it, praying for it, hoping for it.

All of the energy that is directed toward obsessing over the false twin, feeding their ego, and holding them in the light, depletes the life force of the twin flame victim, whilst enabling the false twin to become replenished, and only further more determined in their efforts to display the pseudo heroine/champion role.

 

 

Amy Winehouse, and husband Blake, Amy (life path 8), Blake, (life path 22).

Nas, and ex wife Kelis, Nas (life path 7), Kelis, (life path 1/0) – combined number 8.

Numerologically speaking, these karmic attachments will typically involve the presence of the numbers 11, or 8, as both of these numbers pertain to karma, facing our karmic transactions,and leaving behind past traumas, in pursuits of spirituality, and wholeness.

 

 

 

For signs, and symbols of a false twin flame, look out for my twin flame, tell all book, pioneering in late March/Early April. This book will explore all of the themes, and perspectives of the sacred union, including the much anticipated question, ‘does it truly exist?’.

To book your own reading with me, a twin flame reading, or to receive advice/guidance about a karmic situation,

email me via cindyanneh-bu@hotmail.co.uk to set up a booking. Advice, and guidance about coping with a false twin flame will fall underneath the category of, ‘general lifestyle advice, costing the same as a life path reading.
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Cindy Anneh-bu

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