Twin Flames What is a sacred lover? (The alchemical marriage) – Book Sample.

“Twin flame love is not easy.
I am not affirming this in sort of a toxic way, that encourages or even gives life to dangerous, or emotionally challenging relationships. Because the two are entirely different.
So you hear about the many ups, and the downs, and the dark nights of the soul that mirror depression?
So what makes this any different from a high strung toxic or even abusive relationship?
It is the love…
Underneath it all – the pain, the dysfunction, the desire to understand the self, there is such a raw love that it cannot be mistaken.I do not necessarily believe so much in a ‘separation stage’, as with true twin flames – they are bound to one another entirely, and cannot be without one another for longer than what feels like a second.
I do believe in the dynamics of the ‘runner’, however, I believe that both twins are runners, in their very own ways.
The reason that I say that I do not believe in a separation stage, is because time does not work the same way that it does here in this 3D world in the element of the 5th dimension, which effectively is where the love of twin flames operate..
There is a difference, between a divine soul spark that kicks and shifts you into awakening – and your twin flame.
Sometimes, what you perceive to be a ‘separation stage’, may actually be your breaking away from this soul spark, so that you can integrate the lessons, karma, and experiences that they have taught you.

What is a twin flame?
Many people say that a twin flame is the other half of your soul – but I do not subscribe to this theory, because I do not believe that any soul is incomplete. Rather, a twin flame is a fellow healer who shares the same energetic vibration with you. Usually, one twin will incarnate into a masculine essence, and be extremely masculine (hyper masculine), whilst the other embodiment, will incarnate into a feminine essence, and be extremely feminine, to the point of imbalance. 

The reason for this is because, the objective of both of these individuals is to find and gain balance between their two polar energies.
They are both heaven and hell. They are both light and dark. They are simultaneously feminine, AND masculine – all at the same time. This is what makes them so unique. This is the energy of God. God is not one, or the other, for God is all – creation (the masculine, and the feminine, which gives birth to the third energy, (the holy trinity).

The feminine aspect of these individuals is their ability to interpret information by tapping into their intuition, effortlessly, and their high levels of creative ability. The masculine aspect of them, is all in their analytical, and intellectual thought pattern. When they discover through one another how to harmonise the two, they can become a real force to be reckoned with.

What happens after you have met your twin flame?
In the short time after you have met your twin flame, your life will appear as if it is falling apart, or is if you are losing control of things. And this is because, likely – you are. Your twinflame is sent to rearrange your life in a way that will almost cause it, and yourself to be unrecognisable. Likely, at the time that you met your twin, you were alive, but not really living – almost in a sea of motionless. However, when the awakening of meeting your twin begins, you will be forced to deal with many of the things that you have been unwilling to look into. This is what the shattering of your illusions, ego self, belief systems, and thought patterns looks and feels like. 

How will you know if you have met your twin flame?
The ancestral karma will be so ripe in the both of you, you will not question that your family history or cultural/societal beliefs have MUCH to do with this.
This individual will definitely mimic the side of the family karma that you must heal.
Does everybody have a twin flame?
No… Not everyday does. But this is okay. Trust me, this is not some fairy tale love story that sets ‘twins’ apart as some sort of idealised love that no one can ever attain.
Yes it is a beautiful love, but it is purposeful, just as much as it can be romantic.
There is much toxicity and negative karmic debris in the genetic line of twin flames, and often, they are on their last life times here, and must correct a lot, if not all of this before their final ascension, (should they choose not to re/incarnate as advanced healers, or way showers once more).
Twin flames are about the mission.. The mission of unconditional love, of healing the masses, of healing themselves, of coming into the perfect place, position, and energetic alignment necessary to carry out their great work.
They are angels on earth – but they come with their own set of Devils.
- Cindy Anneh-bu.”

Copyright Cindy Anneh-bu 2016 ©
Taken from my up coming book.
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From a very early age, it was clear to see that my path was one paved with difference. Inspiration, intuition, and imagination gripped me long before I could find my feet. I walk the life path of 7, so I am irreversibly bound to the realm of mysticism, spiritualism, and esotericism. I do not belong to this world, for I am a 'tween', always in between worlds. I am the commander of serpents, belonging to the glorious, and forbidden 13th zodiac of ophiuchus. Hidden in secrecy, to one day return as the divine feminine awakens. Love, is my speciality, and has governed my existence. I now use a combination of intuition, natural healing ability, astrology, psychology, sociology, and numerology to bring clarity, healing, and understanding to all. With the energy of ophiuchus running through me, I could never turn away from the path of healing, nor teaching. Not only does ophiuchus represent healing, but also the crevices of the dark shadows that we must crawl through to find our path to healing, in other words, the shamanic process of death, and re-birth, which has pretty much been the summation of my existence thus far. Long gone are my days of depression, I have re-claimed my divinity, and I desire nothing more than to help you to also claim yours. Not only the seeker, I am also the lover. Part of the many trials that I have endured upon this empathic journey, are that of heart break, and abandonment consciousness. For this reason, I have become an advocate for healthy loving relationships, and the harmony between the two sexes. This has taken me on a deep quest, to uncover ancient old secrets, and deeply entrenched beliefs, about man, about woman, and what this reads about where we are to. My eternal life drive and motto revolves around this simple theory, 'Where there is an outcome, there has existed a cause'. My particular areas of interest and expertise lie with sociology, psychology, spiritualism, philosophy, and literary, and creative writing. As I have a deeply intense desire to both serve, and aid humanity, I have naturally been drawn toward topics that have provided me with a more in depth account of societal behaviour, and as it stands, human kind. My roots are as deeply rooted as they can be, stemming from Ghanaian parents, who were raised, and both skilled in the art, and knowledge of superstition, and divination wisdom, it is no surprise that the blood flowing through my veins compels me to do such work, so relentlessly. Unlike other bloggers, this work featured here is not a mere hobby, it is more than just my livelihood, it is the calling of which i cannot ignore. Another prominent focus of mine, is mental illness. Not comfortable, nor fully sold with the western idealisms of the implications of such, i seek research, personal experience, and observation to prove, that many mental illnesses hold spiritual connotation, particularly as the mind is an avid translator of spiritual energies. Follow me on this journey as i discover myself, retrace my roots, fall deeply in love with my heritage, and finally accept my awkward, unorthodox societal position. To book one of my services, and allow me to guide you back to the soul, email me via I offer dream interpretation, tarot reading, therapy, numerology readings, and see through the eyes of the lover.. To contact me across all of my platforms, follow me on instagram to keep up with my latest quotes, and mystically inclined photography @spiritualpoetess_ To keep up with my snappy, sassy, and spiritually laced motivational tweets, find me on twitter @spiritualpoet_ Facebook like page

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