Twin Flames DNA -what is the ‘separation stage’, what causes it, and what purposes does it serve?


“The stage of oneness and bliss can last anywhere from between a few weeks, and several months. After this stage, doubts begin to emerge within both twins, and they will begin to partake in what I call this push-pull polarity dynamic in which they will trigger one another’s worst fears/wounds. My period of bliss with my twin lasted approximately two months, and I am still experiencing the separation stage, so I am definitely incredibly sensitive to this period of time! Now it is very important to acknowledge that although it appears that it is your twin causing the pain and discomfort experienced, it is actually yourself. Yes. 

This is you playing out templates that have been passed onto you and inherited from thoughts, feelings and belief systems imposed on to you. These are wounds and blockages rising from our spiritual, mental, and emotional bodies that need to be eared in order for you to reach an ascension and align with your highest calling. The two templates. 

The female template is one of issues relating to sex and commitment. Throughout her life, (as in the lives of most women), the female will have been filled with beliefs about what love and a romantic relationship should look like. Many females, (particularly empath women), will have had issues of abandonment imprinted upon them from many generations before. I believe that trauma is inherited and information is passed down in the DNA from womb, to womb. This very template will have caused pain and destruction for far too long and definitely now requires clearing. We live in a society that represses women sexually, therefore when triggered, it is her feelings of abandonment related to sex that enable her to assume the ‘chaser’ position.

 The female twin does not quite understand the push/pull dynamic or the polar effect her and her twin have with one another. She does not realise that the more she chases, bombards and pursues her twin, the more withdrawn and emotionally unavailable he becomes. This is a natural sea-saw effect that takes place whilst both twins remain imbalanced. They are both existing at two extremes of the spectrum, (think bipolar disorder). The male twin often feels absolutely horrified by his lack of control in this situation. 

His ego self fears a great loss of identity as he has been forced to re evaluate himself and everything he had held to be true. It is important at this stage for the female twin to do her best to express feelings of support, patience and understanding, as although she feels abandoned, her twin is also dealing with deep emotional turmoil and feels his world is falling apart. She must try her best to remember that the twins are parallel, so whilst she is experiencing the painful emptiness and loss, he also feels it, even if it is only his soul self that is fully aware of this. He may find himself doing things to escape the pain and escape himself, such as engaging in sexual activities with multiple women, (my apologies female twins!) though on a better note, please keep in mind that all of these methods are just false attempts to distract himself from the magnetic pull of this Union. Events will transpire following the separation period that will see a break down of both twins environments, and they will be given multiple opportunities for enlightenment.”

Happy healing, my sacred beings ~

© Cindy Anneh-bu 2016.

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