Saying goodbye to narcissistic love; Why am I so attracted to you?

In order to understand why narcissists & highly sensitive beings are continuously drawn toward narcissists & vice versa – you must understand & establish their core wound.

Which often, is the very same wound.

A narcissist is likely to construct a false reality in which they are the centre of the universe because inside, they believe that they are actually viewed as an insignificant participant of the universe — through LEARNED childhood programming.

Just like empaths, they too are primarily concerned w/ self image.
A narcissists reality is a pseudo reality, therefore, it can not be accurately deciphered who they are, or what they feel, because they themselves are conflicted about their true sense of self.. The core of a narcissist, is a petulant child.

Petulant children rarely ever grow into functional adults, without dragging with them a sense of entitlement, and refusal to be dependent upon themselves for gratification.

There will come a time in your life where you just stop making excuses for people.

You may have lived a life of stifling your intuition, second guessing yourself, & telling yourself that you did not really feel what you felt, for the sake of not rocking the boat, or not being an outcast… But one day? You will respect yourself more. You will respect yourself enough. 

You will say no.

You will begin to remove people from Your life, regardless of how much you feel for them, regardless of the position that they have held in your life.

You will stop trying to mould people to be a certain way.. Because your idealism will not be replaced, but will be enhanced, balanced even, by your acceptance – that everything has a time & place. And if something does not match your internalised perceptions & ideal vibrations, it is because you, or it are co-existing, in the wrong time, & the wrong place..
And you must correct these inaccuracies, for they plague your world, & your perception of yourself. – Cindy Anneh-bu, the lover & the lovee.. No more.

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What is #empathology: A community building course that allows you into the inner psyche of the empath – a highly intuitive, sensitive & perceptive being & their internal//external relationship w/ dysfunctional personality traits & life style choices…

Coping mechanisms often manifest as toxic behaviours, as their highly sensitive energetic template is rarely nourished, or accommodated by the harsher energies of an ever growing apathetic society. 

There are many variables that also make the psychology of an empath so complex. Usual traumatic, or negatively memorable life experiences, exposure to a world that appears alien to them, & a difficulty expressing their intense inner worlds.

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From a very early age, it was clear to see that my path was one paved with difference. Inspiration, intuition, and imagination gripped me long before I could find my feet. I walk the life path of 7, so I am irreversibly bound to the realm of mysticism, spiritualism, and esotericism. I do not belong to this world, for I am a 'tween', always in between worlds. I am the commander of serpents, belonging to the glorious, and forbidden 13th zodiac of ophiuchus. Hidden in secrecy, to one day return as the divine feminine awakens. Love, is my speciality, and has governed my existence. I now use a combination of intuition, natural healing ability, astrology, psychology, sociology, and numerology to bring clarity, healing, and understanding to all. With the energy of ophiuchus running through me, I could never turn away from the path of healing, nor teaching. Not only does ophiuchus represent healing, but also the crevices of the dark shadows that we must crawl through to find our path to healing, in other words, the shamanic process of death, and re-birth, which has pretty much been the summation of my existence thus far. Long gone are my days of depression, I have re-claimed my divinity, and I desire nothing more than to help you to also claim yours. Not only the seeker, I am also the lover. Part of the many trials that I have endured upon this empathic journey, are that of heart break, and abandonment consciousness. For this reason, I have become an advocate for healthy loving relationships, and the harmony between the two sexes. This has taken me on a deep quest, to uncover ancient old secrets, and deeply entrenched beliefs, about man, about woman, and what this reads about where we are to. My eternal life drive and motto revolves around this simple theory, 'Where there is an outcome, there has existed a cause'. My particular areas of interest and expertise lie with sociology, psychology, spiritualism, philosophy, and literary, and creative writing. As I have a deeply intense desire to both serve, and aid humanity, I have naturally been drawn toward topics that have provided me with a more in depth account of societal behaviour, and as it stands, human kind. My roots are as deeply rooted as they can be, stemming from Ghanaian parents, who were raised, and both skilled in the art, and knowledge of superstition, and divination wisdom, it is no surprise that the blood flowing through my veins compels me to do such work, so relentlessly. Unlike other bloggers, this work featured here is not a mere hobby, it is more than just my livelihood, it is the calling of which i cannot ignore. Another prominent focus of mine, is mental illness. Not comfortable, nor fully sold with the western idealisms of the implications of such, i seek research, personal experience, and observation to prove, that many mental illnesses hold spiritual connotation, particularly as the mind is an avid translator of spiritual energies. Follow me on this journey as i discover myself, retrace my roots, fall deeply in love with my heritage, and finally accept my awkward, unorthodox societal position. To book one of my services, and allow me to guide you back to the soul, email me via I offer dream interpretation, tarot reading, therapy, numerology readings, and see through the eyes of the lover.. To contact me across all of my platforms, follow me on instagram to keep up with my latest quotes, and mystically inclined photography @spiritualpoetess_ To keep up with my snappy, sassy, and spiritually laced motivational tweets, find me on twitter @spiritualpoet_ Facebook like page

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