I am so happy to announce the arrival of my much awaited second book. Writing this for me has been an incredibly emotional experience, & I can already attest to the fact that it is the beginning of an emotional cleansing for myself, & many women/femmes alike who are coming out of an arduous, confusing, & spiritually challenging time of our lives.
It has happened to the best of us, particularly in our prime. These sweep you off of your feet, whirlwind romance, once in a life time dream come true, until everything comes crashing painfully up – & then down again, romances.
But what is the science behind them? And those who have had their fair share, (like myself), what is the science behind THEM? Who amongst us can understand how we continue to find ourselves in these situations, even though we have sworn we learnt from the last, even though we have sworn that we are strong & dedicated entirely to our path.
Why does it seem like every time we are on track, & every time that we have healed from one painful scenario, another seems to crop up almost instantaneously.
Well, I took the time to determine & define JUST that. What is it that causes so many highly spiritual & empathic women to find themselves in the grasp of narcissist, after narcissist? Why is there such an influx in google searches about this feverish narcissist & empath dynamic?
I have spent the past 5 years knowingly, & unknowingly on the path to discovering this truth, & though my knowledge is never complete, the end of my karmic journey would be even more incomplete if I did not share with you all in my own harrowing words, what I have found to be true about this dynamic. About these men.
Now before I move on to the details about how to acquire this dazzling piece, I must say that this is not another man bashing book. Far from it for that matter. Though a majority of this book is catered to seeing the masculines eyes through the feminines understanding, this book is very much open for healing with both men, & women.
And men, there is a lot that you can teach yourself in here, & finally understand. Although much of it won’t be very pleasant, it’s the perfect beginning for you to embark upon a potent healing journey.. Don’t shy away.
If I would have read this book 6 years ago, it would have changed my life. Perhaps I wouldn’t have been so broken on the way. Perhaps I would have healed sooner, but I do not regret the processes that took me undercover, in the dark world, to bring you these truths. – Cindy Anneh-bu
This is the book that EVERY mother should read to her daughter. And EVERY father should read to his son. And I do not say that lightly.
In this book I have managed to piece together the ancient knowledge necessary for you to free yourself from deeply embedded karmic bonds & chains. This, along with the healing the masculine ritual, is my offering to the world before my soul leaves. This is the closing of this karmic debt & chapter for me, & many others too.
I have spent the last several years of my life researching, & falling into my own pits of Trances & despair in order to bridge the gap & the ever so significant bridge between spirituality & modern medicine, especially our interpretations of mental illness. This essentially, is what my practice is all about, & this piece is the perfect anecdote of that.
Compiled with quotes & references from renowned psychologists, in this book I bring you both the psychology, & the parapsychology of the mind of the afflicted man known, as the baby boy.
Narcissism is becoming a dying concept. It is far too rigid & many ’empaths’ are recognising that they too carry narcissistic traits.
Well, if you care to dig deeper, & you care to know more, beyond these rigid calculations,
What is baby boy syndrome you ask?
Well, just that. A ‘condition’, in which a man over the age of (roughly 18) – adulthood refuses to acknowledge that he has crossed a threshold age where he must be responsible for his actions, become self sustainable, and inject conscious awareness into his thoughts, feelings, and actions.
In other words, a man who appears to embody a man on the outside, but on the inside, hasn’t the slightest clue how to navigate in this world, as an independent, and reliable force.
Anytime the masculine fails to offer you that security of knowing that whatever you pour into the relationship will be safe, he robs her, essentially, of the opportunity to experience the very best of her reality.
If you wouldn’t allow this to happen to inanimate objects, then why would you allow for it to take place within your own soul?
Another reason for a woman being attracted to the lack of stability in a baby boy, is because she has never known true stability.
Through the countless accounts I have observed of women who are with these types of men, they almost always have had some type of drama going on at home with their families, some type of instability that they are attempting to run from, only to recreate this scenario with a partner.
Whatever is going on at home, you have to heal from the affects of it. You cannot run from it. Or you will surely find it again. As the highs & the lows that a baby boy offers provides a distraction from whatever upheaval the woman is already experiencing at home.
‘Thinking that you are unlovable. That you’re lucky that he chose you, even with all of your damaging’.
Control is a big factor with the baby boy, & he does seem it in anyway that he can get it. Although he rarely ever maintains it – & that’s just the problem.
This is why the opening line of my masculine ritual reading is, ‘ You cannot have control, without chaos’.
It is the chaotic nature of the feminine herself, that gives the masculine the opportunity to control something.
In many ways, he makes an attempt at the role of a father, perhaps much like her own, scattered in his ways.
He will alert her of her ways that are destructive, & dysfunctional, as they are plentiful.
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© CINDY ANNEH-BU
Please note that mental health is to be taken very seriously & I am not fully qualified to provide advice regarding medication. I simply propose an alternative viewpoint to traditionally discussed and diagnosed methods.