A song, only for you; why you cannot talk to friends, family members, or even bestfriends about the twin flame Union. 

The twin flame Union is a distant tune being hummed lowly, deep into the night. It is a call of two harmonies, calling, and responding between one another, out stretched into a space between them, but never around them.

This music is attuned to such a frequency that, it goes unheard by anybody whom it is not meant for, yet to the souls that press their ears firmly against it, it is at times most deafening.

On the outside, the twin flame Union appears quite messy. You may frequent yourself with comments such as, ‘he/she is not right for you’. ‘It’s just not meant to be’ ‘find somebody who is more right for you’, all when you have attempted to seek counsel about this sacred Union. To which at times you may have even replied, ‘yes, you are right. ‘I’ll try, thank you for that’, only to find yourself returned weeks/months later, with the same impending angst, and inability to retrieve your heart.

Nothing will do. Not telling yourself that you imagined this whole sacred Union. Not telling yourself that you will be happier with a relationship that makes much more ‘sense’. Not even telling yourself that if your love truly cared about you, they would show it. Nope. Especially not that. Because even when you do not think that your love truly loves you still, you KNOW that they do. It is this internal knowing, with this mental un-knowing that drives you to constantly seek, counsel, answers, frantically racing through multiple search engines, maybe even racing through my own works. And it is comforting, indeed it is, but still, does not take away from the internal push-pulling.

And this is bevause this is a song, ‘only for you’. Only you can decipher what your soul is trying to translates to you, as it fusses, and erupts during the ups and downs of this Union. As you uncover greater levels of yourself, it will feel as if your pining for your twin flame is only growing stronger, this is because the song is getting louder.

Won’t you stop to hear it?

What is it trying to say?

Silence the mind, play the tune..

My twin flame book is currently in the works of being finalised. Full twin flame account, twin flames through childhood, and each of the stages, experiences broken down.

To book a twin flame/soul mate reading with me, or to work out the compatibility of you and your love using numerology/astrology, email me via cindyanneh-bu@hotmail.co.uk

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Empaths; social anxiety, or energetic receptivity? 

Honestly? There is an element of both, but no, I do not fully buy into the theory of social anxiety, as far as the empath is concerned. Overcrowded spaces, and large group settings are typically overwhelming to the empath for two main reasons.

1. The empath can pick up on energy, this energy tends to become them, and they exhibit these emotions. Imagine the internal chaos of an empath who is surrounded by a large group of people? That is energy, emotion AND data overload, and let us not forget, empaths are very easily over stimulated. They already have so much going on in their psyche, the idea of dealing with left over residue from a host of strangers is almost unbearable. It is common for the empath after such intense socialising to return home with all of these alien feelings, that they probably have no idea how to deal with, as they do not belong to them. 

2. Let’s be honest here, the empath has had a very difficult life. They have probably come from a family with a lot of karmic debt, they have probably been picked on quite a bit for their reserved, and at times timid nature, and they have probably been victim to a few narcissists/sociopaths also. So of course, the empath (until they have fully healed), is probably absolutely terrified of being judged, and what’s worse than being judged by one person? Being judged be an entire group of people, simultaneously. 

So what can be done? Strip away the layers that echo to you that you must fear the world or fear their reactions. fear is a false product of the past. Understand that the future is all that exists. Allow it to exist as it does. Do not set pre – conceived notions or expectations about it. Just let it be.


To gain a deeper insight into the working world of the empath, and how to transform your own life as one, join my empath learning course here at, specially tailoring to empaths, and their healing.

ascension symptoms – new earth. 

“Ascension symptom – developing a heightened intolerance for those who continue to engage in low vibrational behaviours. They say, if you know better, then you do better. But what about those who are aware that the option of better is available, but just cannot be bothered to do the necessary work toward attaining it. Well this is just something that the enlightened mind can no longer stand to indulge. This is not coming from a place of a superiority complex, but rather of not wishing to entertain things that we do not want as a part of our reality. If we have given somebody numerous opportunities to change, given them love, and guidance, and they still do not warrant progress, then there is nothing that we can do, but create a reality absent of them. This may be troublesome in the case of family members as we may feel that there is no escaping. But truly, the veil of the earthly family and the karmic contracts associated with them will begin to lift as one uncovers the truth about existence, both of the self, and collectively.”Cindy Anneh-bu (via spiritualpoet)