Sacred love, twin flames, non attachment theory, and embracing love, for what it is.

  
There has existed a long standing held belief that ALL twin flames who experience one another upon this plane are to one day reunite, because their mission, and spiritual work is reliant upon a shared goal.

I believe that this is a new age myth that is propagated, and is very much similar to Disney-esque fairy taled happy endings.

In reality, the universe, and our 3D existence is not reliant upon such hard fact, and concrete happenings.

The sacred Union is spontaneous, fiery, adventurous, personal, and non determinable. It cannot be boxed in with a set of explanations, and expectations, just like love cannot.
The very notion that all twin flames are to one day come back together keeps so many twin flames trapped within the fallacy of the Union, and they often neglect to live, or to focus on their own lives. This is a dangerous ideology that can lead to one becoming severely depressed, obsessed, unhappy, and disillusioned with the world. They begin to adopt the belief that they will not be happy until this re-Union occurs, and are often likely to hold their overall well being up in accordance to how near, or far they believe that reunion should be. This type of attachment causes more anxiety, fear, and irrational outbursts towards the twin runner, than many care to admit to.
Love is not predictable. And this type of Union is specifically designed to get us to relinquish this intense desire that we have for control. It is not fair to see your twin as a pawn in the game of your happiness. This dehumanises them. They are beautiful, pure, individual, and whole souls, not just pieces that were created to cater to your expectations, or demands about what love should be.

Let them be.

Let you be.

  
Whether or not, twin flames have reunited in the traditional, physical sense, the awakening, and alchemical transformation, has begun within the two of them, and will see to its own completion. 

Once the twins embrace each other in the initial union that takes place just before the separation stage, a third energy is born, the sun (son) so to speak. Think of the immaculate conception. This third energy is what goes out into the world with both twins and brings healing, and ‘light work’ to their respective communities/societies.

The exchange in energy has taken place. Within the masculine energy embodiment, is now a divine piece of his feminine counterpart. Within the feminine energy embodiment, is now a divine piece of her masculine counterpart. This is true reunion. This is true oneness.

The process that takes place after the coming together of both twins, that feels like a dark night of the soul, and feels like soul yearning, is truly the spiritual, mental, and emotional body coming to terms with the invasion of a new energy, and integrating the birth of the third energy. The reason that this feels like such a strong, intense pull toward your divine love, is because it is their energy that you have borrowed for this process, and everything about its presence, reminds you of them. In this way, they are always with you. Therefore, there is no truthful separation.

This article is not to say that twin flames are not destined to be together, or that no twin flame will ever reunite. Indeed, many twins have, and will continue to. But reunion is not the overall objective of this sacred love. Rather it is the integration of two opposing energies, of light and dark, heaven, and Earth, day and night, love, and pain, masculine, and feminine.

Loving your sacred counterpart so freely in this way will allow them to feel protected in your love. They will acknowledge that your love is a fixed love, unconditional, and not just dependent on what they can, and cannot do for you.
Please look out for the release of my twin flame book, which should be finalised within the next two months!

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Monthly forecast – Jan 2016 New moon in Capricorn, balancing masculine energies, and twin flames – love, with no attachments.

  
Hey guys! How are you all doing?I trust that you are all enjoying the full benefits of the predictions of my first ever new year report, based all on numerology! (If you haven’t had a chance to check it out yet, click here https://cindyannehbu.wordpress.com/2016/01/08/numerology-report-2016-year-of-the-number-9-and-spiritual-advancement/   )

I promised you all that this year would be full of spiritual surprises, spiritually motivated, and spirit is wasting no time, and taking no prisoners, in manifesting instant results! This is the spiritual year of the number 9. As I mentioned before, the number 9 makes use of all of the tough lessons that it has learned, and uses creativity, and compassion, to ultimately entice success!

So success, that is what we are focusing on this year. All we really want to see, is the manifestation of all of our hard work, all of our learning, and all of our trials. What has it all amounted to? And how do we know where to start from?

This new year started as best as it could! With a new moon in Capricorn. Now, new moons, are all about the harvest, it is dark, so we do not see the moon, and as we all know, darkness is necessary, and required, for anything to grow. We started our ‘compost’, shall we say, in one of the most masculine, straight talking, and no nonsense sun signs!

Now, sometimes Capricorn gets a bad rep.. And I am even guilty of a few, ‘bad’ whisperings about Capricorn, but Capricorn is not always the cold hearted, distance, and narcissistically calculated embodiment that we have come to think it is! 

One of the reasons that Capricorn appears too straight forward, and too blunt, is because Capricorn energy is all about that drive – that drive to succeed! That intense hunger, that is willing to put emotion aside, and trust logics, in order to take action, and progress as it needs. Capricorn sees the target, and is rarely concerned about collateral damage, or who may become caught in the storm.

This is the exact template of masculine energy. Conquering. Power. Action. And determination. And that is exactly the kind of sentiments that we require to have our goals met this year, and to step outside of our comfort zones. 

Feminine energy has aided, and asssisted us all in tending to our wounds, and now… Enters the masculine father, to ensure that we do not get too caught up in dwelling in our wounds, and misfortune, and that we are now ready to take pro-active measure, to kick start our lives into action, and not re-action.

See, so not so bad after all is it?

  

As the divine feminine arrived in full effect at repetitive intervals in 2015, our main mission now, is the integration, and incorporation of the divine masculine. In order, to embrace these two opposing energies, we must change the ways in which we view masculine energy. There is nothing wrong with power. Drive. Nor ambition to succeed. It has only become perceived as ‘wrong’, because it has previously existed without the influence of the divine feminine working in harmony, and produced many of the corporate leaders, and elites that we have come to witness today. Plain sociopaths, only dedicated to the pursuit of power, at the hands of exploitation, and manipulation of others.

Now, we are seeing a new kind of power. A power that is both nurturing, and aggressive, when it needs to be. True power, (such as balanced feminine power), knows that it does not have to exercise power over others to show that it holds power. Power is something non-relative. It is all entirely dependent on the individuals journey, and ability. 

  
Twin flames; love, with non attachment.

One of the major problems, or triggers within the sacred Union template, is the desire for control. It is very likely that the power dynamics often shift, due to control measures that were used upon both twins during their childhood. They probably come from families who are also obsessed with the notion of control. Particularly on the part of the twin embodying the masculine energies. It is their lack of control in the situation that causes them to run. And it is the feminine energies desire to gain control over her love, that causes her to continue chasing, and injuring herself in the process.

Once we understand that love, and control, can not be housed in the same compound, we are one step closer to achieving harmony. Within ourselves, and within our love.

It is time to change the ways in which we view masculine energy. This will help the masculine twin in the sacred Union to make peace with himself, and begin to exercise control, and assertiveness over his life, whilst helping the feminine twin to heal the aspects of herself that associate masculinity with brutality. 

Look out for manifestations of men speaking from the heart chakra.

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