Empaths, spotting beneath the surface, the burden of enhanced perception.

 
So this one, is most definitely for my darling empaths of the world, once again!

Now, we all know ALL too well the pain, and the distress of acknowledging a trait, or the persona of somebody, despite how insidious, or subtle it may be, and struggling to articulate this finding to anybody else.. Honestly, it’s just like, ‘hello? How can you not see this? HOW am I the only one seeing this?’

I know, I know.. It almost makes you want to lose your mind, either that, or it makes you question.. ‘Have I truly lost my mind?’ Well, my darling empath.. You have not. You are not crazy, neither paranoid, (well maybe a little), but you are NOT imagining this.

The thing with us is, we perceive beyond the surface. Empaths are seekers by nature, so we never take anything at face value.

Even if somebody is appearing confident, flamboyant, and talkative Infront of us, we will hone in on their ‘nervous ticks’, on their left foot continuously tapping, on their eager search for approval, as they search the faces of those listening to them for acceptance..

The empath will know, without a doubt, that this individual is putting up smoke + mirrors + is playing up for their audience.
This is particularly frustrating for us empaths when we come across narcissists, + those with sociopathic tendencies. Despite the smiles, or the seemingly charming persona, the empath will feel incredibly uncomfortable, anxious, + on guard in the presence of this individual.. Never being fully able to relax.

Learn to trust yourself, this is the goal of all empaths. To understand that you hold access to a world rarely perceived by others, + to relish in this internal guidance system. It is no falsity, so exaggeration of the mind. It is energetic receptivity + yes, unfortunately, it typically manifests as symptoms of anxiety.

 
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‘Celebrity culture, and television dreaming’. Mini article.

  
In a capitalistic society, ‘celebrity culture’, and ‘popular culture’, are one in the same. Ofcourse, it could be no other way.
Without the luring promise of a life filled with praise, admiration, boundless riches, and perceived emotional fulfilment, how would the hierarchal queen b, keep the little worker b’s working, and dreaming?
In western culture, celebrity culture has assumed the position that a monarchy, or a religious sect would, in previous times, dominating all influence, cultural, social, and moral significance. For the largest part, we are all under the rule of celebrity culture, and that which it dictates.

‘We’, ofcourse being the collective.
If there was no celebrity culture, how would you define your own ideals of success? What would success look like for you? 

How would you measure your happiness, or your ideals of what you should, and should not achieve?

Where would you look to for salvation, gratification?

Would you continue to live vicariously? Or would you actually go out there and live your dreams.. Television creates a false sense of experience, that is why it produces a lethargic, and procrastinated set of logics.

The part of the brain that engages with television, can easily trick the self into believing that they are the ones experiencing these situations, and emotions, (if they are drawn into what they are viewing).

Consequently, the watcher rather than growing inspired to live out their own destiny, enjoys a false sense of satisfaction from viewing others live out this dream reality.
How is celebrity culture so profitable?

Well, if you make a culture of people insecure enough, there is no limit to what they will purchase for fulfilment.. 
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Hook up culture, sacred sensuality(sexuality), tantric sex, and womb healing.

 

The ‘marriage culture’ that we have come to know from our parents generation of failed partnerships, & no intimacy, is what was destructive. We know better now. We no longer have to marry out of cultural necessity, we actually get to CHOOSE now. That in itself is beautiful.. 
Hook up culture is the result of a psychologically afflicted generation, too bruised by the degradation of relationship values they’ve seen. We no longer honour the sanctity of union-ship. From music, to television, the marriage template is portrayed as stagnant, and Un-enjoyable. No sanctity of union ship, no desire to build a strong family unit = broken communities, weaker social ties & understanding of relationship (dynamics). We are heading toward a culture of several,’baby mothers’, and ‘baby fathers’, with no family bonds, nor community practice. The fact that people come on Twitter and even make jokes/ memes, out of having, ‘side chicks, and ‘side guys’ is proof of desensitisation. 

The holy trinity, mother + father + [=]child, (masculine and feminine energies combining to the highest essence of creation).. That’s love.

 
If people believed they would genuinely be loved, respected, and received if they entered a partnership, there would be no ‘hook up culture’

Yes, (we) humanity may be collectively moving toward new ideals. But not ALL of these are progressive. Some are still born of trauma.

A generation that largely witnessed the break down of their parents marriages, (their mother’s lack of expression+ their fathers lack of enthusiasm), are inevitably going to view partnership with contempt, and something signifying entrapment, and passive acceptance. 

   
 The only true reason, you’ll want to be having sex with others without building emotional bonds, is because you are fearful of such intimacy. In your humble opinion, it is far easier to, ‘mimic’ this form of closeness, as naturally, all humans require some level of social bonding. Sex, for many, is as close as it gets to love.
If you study sacred sexuality, you would know there can be no separation from intimacy, love and sex.

  
It has only become so, since those in power realised the manifestation power behind such sexual cultivation.. 

Keep people focused on the primal aspects of sex, and they remain trapped in ego consciousness.
You know you can actually cause trauma to a woman’s womb, and psyche, under the guise of a ‘one night stand?’ Men awaken a portal within a woman after sexual intimacy. To then close that portal, or deny responsibility for all that awakens with it, is to prematurely stunt her energy formation. It causes trauma because it reduces her to her sexual organs, in terms of validity. 
Women, and men experience sex a little differently.. Aside from tantric sex, and twin flame sex, that awakens awareness in both partners, generally, the process of sex is more physical for men, (unless they practice sacred sensuality), and the process for women, is largely emotional. During sex, a woman’s heart centre may be activated through stimulation of her breasts, (the heart centre/chakra sits right Inbetween), or through stimuli-station of the womb, which is thought to also ignite feelings of either safety/protection, or fear, and attack. It is not surprise that the womb is associated with feelings of love and comfort – this is the very place that houses in-coming souls.

  [it should also be noted that this symbol is a universal symbol of healing ]

The goal in tantric sex, is to allow both partners to transform their sexual energy, into creative, godly energy, (love). Through the pro-longing of the orgasm, the man trains himself to maintain this momentary glimpse of heaven, by involving not only his lower chakras, but moving from the lower centre, to the higher centres, therefore igniting kundalini awakening. – just think of the snake spiralling up the chakra system, making its way through to the top.

This process begins quite naturally in women after intercourse.. (Well, at least it tries to).
Woman, by nature is accustom to being nurturing and receptive. To making a home out of all she is given. 

You cannot stir this process within her, and then force her to dismantle the alchemical transformation whilst it is in progress..

Biologically, at this point, she is awakening, (the true purpose of sex). Abandoning her afterward is equivalent to awakening a sleeping child,only to offer them a sleeping pill whilst they are finally adjusting to being awakened. The confusion of the natural process is damaging.

When you enter a woman, she has surrendered to you.. In turn, you owe her a duty, of succumbing to whatever arises within her.. Because at that point, it is an accumulation of both of your energies. She is experiencing not only her awakening, but stirring yours.

Her behaviour afterward will shine a light on all that you are. If she begins to act fearful, she is responding to a place of fear within you both. If she grows more loving and playful, she is reflecting this nature within yourself.. Listen and take heed.

Abstinence, and a prolonged period of celibacy is a good cure for women who have, in the past given their sexual power away in anyway. Sexual power can be given (taken)away in a magnitude of ways. People pleasers who use sex as a means to validate their desirability, are but one way sexual power may be given. In this case, the abuse is self inflicted, though very much as potent in its damaging effects. 

In this absence, the woman should spend time honouring her womb, (rituals to celebrate moon cycles, and womb cycles), and learn of its divinity.

The self cleansing mechanisms of the vagina, will take care of the rest. Largely, it is a mental game of re-introducing harmony.

There are also forms of visualisation meditation that can see you through retrieving parts of your soul that were lost..

   
 Poetry by me,

‘We are the generation who forgot how to love’.

“We are the generation who forgot how to love.
So we bury our emotions beneath rocks.
So we build these walls, and we say that they keep out our deepest fears, but really, they just deprive us of the kind of love that our soul wants.
Maybe it was Disney films and it’s false depictions of love, that set our standards far too high, far too unrealistic, and far too unattainable.
Maybe, we were the generation who saw the deterioration of our parents marriages, some born out of cultural necessity, others frivolous victims to the arrival of the 60’s, where love was ‘free’, and begun to shun monogamy. 
Many of us are the parents of immigrants from distant lands, that know no romance. 

We are the generation who grew up in an era of social media, the world available at our finger tips, love filled words exchanged over screens, by ferocious finger tips. How could love ever cease to exist?

It hasn’t,

But nowadays, it is almost a fools wish.”

Cinderella Anneh-bu

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Awakening the divine masculine, rebirth, accepting feminine intervention; and making peace with your emotions.

  
So how does he do it? How does he cope? After being emotionally stunted for more than 3000 years, how does the divine masculine re-familiarise himself with feminine principles, and allow himself to settle into his emotions, without creating an uncomfortable feeling?

Well, I would love to tell you, (him), that this will happen naturally, but this is just not something that I can do. And this form of integration will take both some time, and some patience – from both parties.

As the divine feminine returns, and bids to make her mark on reclaiming her masculine counter part, she will without a doubt encounter resistance from the opposing side, the hyper masculine, masculine energies, who associate her with weakness, and submission.

The divine masculine has remained in hiding for a long time because of this. You see, because this new form of man, who was born with an empathic mission, was also born with a higher than average level of feminine energy, the most high knew that he would need this, to carry out his mission, to be the peace maker.

Because he has learnt how to blend into his society so well, he may even go unnoticed as the truthfully deep sensitive that he is. He may even find himself surrounded by a group of friends who fit the hyper masculine archetype, or at least – heavily attempt to.

He remains in-cognito, only displaying his deeply intuitive, and emotional tendencies, on the rare efforts that he sees fit. Generally, he is gifted by the most high with something reminiscent of a twin flame, (if you believe in that theory), a highly spiritual soul counterpart, with whom he first fully uncovers, and expresses, the depth of his nature. It is likely that she will be the one who re-introduces him to the divine feminine. After their meeting, the man will never be the same. His transformation has begun.

  
The entire process is a re-birth, and will challenge him to completely re-wire the ways that he views manhood, the ways in which he views his relationship with his father, and most importantly, his relationship of wounding with his father.

Through this spiritual evolution, he will begin to understand the traumas associated with up holding this masculine template, and how alienating the divine feminine has only brought both friction, and disassociation between both parties. He, more than anyone understands the shame associated with appearing as a, ‘weak man’.  

He, also more than anyone, knows the struggle to maintain this act.

  
His emotions will see to it that he opens up a gateway, whether he intends to or not, he will be gifted with the ability to endure the entire emotional spectrum, and he must decide from there on, cautiously, where to place his time and energies. 

His mission is in awakening the male collective that surrounds him, and in doing so, he will be granted the opportunity for expansion, and immense manifestation abilities.
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The travesty of the hyper-masculine archetype. 

  
I have not completed my post on numerology as of yet, but that will be coming through soon..

From my study, and my observation, I have seen that males carrying the life path of 1, 11, and 9 are most prone to the wounded healer archetype, this is because this is also the templates of the spiritual healers, the channellers, and the way showers.
Astrologically speaking, men under the star sign of Scorpio, cancer, and Pisces are also very likely to hold hyper sensitive traits, and a considerable amount of feminine energy, and this is absolutely nothing to be ashamed of! Men within this group tend to hold a very special, and tender relationship with their mothers, and a great appreciation for women, though this may be counter acted by a very hyper masculine father, who views women from the old ways of thinking, as inferior, and lesser commodities.
The challenge then, for these men, is to create an open space within themselves where they can allow this feminine energy to flow freely, (effectively healing themselves), and counteract the pain of the misinformation, and dogma inherited from their fathers, and their paternal karmic line.
If none of this makes very much sense to you, and if you are a man who would like to calculate your own life path and find out how to heal, email me, (email in bio).

Despite what we have been socialised to believe, men expressing healthy emotions such as sadness, empathy, and love show incredibly health benefits, to both mind, and body.

So many men are in pain, because they are in so much emotional turmoil, and they have never been taught how to express it, or that it is ok to express it.

The luckier of the few, will go on to attract highly feminine women, who will balance their energies, and teach them to open up.. 
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Abandonment based anxiety in relationships. 

  
It is easy to lose your head quickly, or become lost in a stream of negative thoughts when you are constantly searching for cues that your partner will abandon you.
After all, your perception of the world is fuelled by the belief that you will one day, or will always be, abandoned, either for somebody who is more preferred, or just abandoned solely because you are you, and you are abandon-able (yes I just made up my own word). However, there is this little thing called a self fulfilling prophecy. When we lend our energy to the belief, and the occurrence of something, we actually draw it into our reality, and make it a possibility, even if it wasn’t one prior to this.
Example? If you are stuck with the belief that you are unworthy of love, and therefore more susceptible to becoming abandoned, there are certain behaviours that you will adopt whilst on hyper alert, whilst trying to protect yourself, from perceived abandonment. 

The Ego is particularly ravenous when it fears that it is about to be met with its deepest wounding, especially that original wound that set the Table for all others to gather, much later. 

Behaviours such as excessive calling, texting, or attempting to make contact in the midst of the fear of becoming abandoned will push your partner away faster than anything else ever could. Co-dependency feels messy, nervous & too highly strung to anybody on the receiving end of it, though it is not intended to be seen that way.
To the person with abandonment based anxiety, they are merely pouring out their heart to their love and trying to get their love to see how much they truly love them, which only causes them further distress when their love rejects these outward displays of affection.. It is because this affection is coming from a space of Ego and wounding, and not from the heart, and your partner can feel this.

Paranoia and false accusations leading to your partner beginning to feel trapped, claustrophobic and uncomfortable are also a side effect of the reactions of those who suffer from abandonment based anxiety. 
Their thought stream of negativity will cause them to make connections where connections do not exist.
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