United energy – Let your friends help you/Green, Masculine – 7 of swords/Emperor, Feminine – 3 of pentacles/8 of pentacles.
The daily these next few days speaks on the troubles we all have with intimacy, vulnerability & rawness & the often awkward way that we approach the emotions that we do not wish to face, including developing codependent bonds, attachments & dependencies.
The feminine is confronted today with the ways in which she may attempt to run or escape from
The emotions that she finds overwhelming & even underwhelming, including the masculine’s participation or often lack of proper conviction in her life.
The feminine does not need to rely on anybody else to provide her with the information or comforts that she may seek in these days, but to trust that they’re there to ask her to redirect her energy back into herself.
The let your friends help you card can also speak of the feminine learning to process or deal with the fall out of the 7 of swords situation from the masculine. The 7 of swords represents the masculine creating the illusion that he’s moving in secrecy or with discretion, but both parties neglecting to acknowledge that they’re both very much aware of the masculine’s motives & behaviours & there may have existed an equal lack of responsiveness on behalf of the feminine when it came to holding him accountable.
Compassion towards self must be practiced by the feminine at this time & she’s asked to cast aside & away harsher or judgemental voices from her field. It becomes ever more important for her to conserve her energy & resist the impulse to seek guidance or validation elsewhere. Past experiences exist to teach the feminine that not everybody is so happy to receive her information nor have good intentions with it. It’s time for you to work on forgiving those who you feel have hurt you, by taking greater responsibility over protecting & responding to yourself. When you refuse to give others the power over your emotions & your emotional regulation, you no longer give them the power of tainting your story.
The 7 of swords with the masculine may demonstrate that he’s still partially caught up in some cycles that he’s given the impression that he has healed or is trying to heal from. The 7 of swords represents a lack of resistance as well as deterrence from showing self control. It’s almost as if the masculine just cannot resist or almost develops a thrill out of believing that he’s getting out of some situations. For some feminine’s, they may have discovered that their masculine has been intimate with a friend of theirs or that somebody was intentionally giving them jaded advice because they were secretly envious.
The feminine is to spend these next 2 days purging the energy of disingenuous friendships, the energy of deceit or the energy of jealousy. The feminine works to clear her heart of being guarded against or being in anticipation of this energy by re-positioning her energy back towards herself so that she can slowly begin to decipher who & where to give it to.
The let your friends help you card also warns the feminine of replacing one codependent bond with another, when the goal is to break free from them completely.
With the emperor card, the masculine may also be feeling the effects of the feminine taking some time to work on her own self development & interests. He may feel as if he’s been wronged somehow or as if his ego has been bruised if he witnesses that the feminine has changed the beat of her drum in anyway. This is where you may see the childish or immature nature in the masculine. Even though he often gets away with things right in front of the feminine’s eyes, if he feels the feminine is losing care or vim for the situation, then he’s likely to be throwing a tantrum, or trying to get the feminine to see/understand why he feels as if she’s overreacting or why he feels as if she doesn’t have a true reason to ‘leave’ as she may be thinking of doing, or this is rather how he perceives her detaching more to focus on herself.
With the green card he may also be experiencing difficulty opening up &
Processing emotions that he may be triggered to feel from the feminine, such as loss or the fear of abandonment. So long as he does not work on healing or
Communicating this, with the 3 of pentacles the feminine becomes more focused upon sorting out her own goals & making connections that will help
To further where she wishes to be in life. The feminine may be thinking more practically, in terms of choosing people around her who have positive influence, even though they may not initially or necessarily be an emotional connection of the same dependency as she’s known previously. She’s willing to try to move within new circles. The 8 of pentacles is all about working diligently within these next 2 days. Once she recognises just how much energy these codependent situations absorb, she’ll return to making a conscious effort to nurture her own self
& water her own crafts.
It’s not that emotions or her desire for intimacy take a back seat now. She just becomes more confident & comfortable with her masculine energy – who seeks balance in both love & war.
Divine lovers weekly reading preview —The road to hell is paved with good intentions.
This week, divine lovers are dealing with the themes of disappointment & betrayal, particularly the aftermath of giving something or somebody a chance, particularly a second chance, particularly if it means placing one’s self in a vulnerable position. This week deals with the age old question we typically ask ourselves & others – do people ever change?
The masculine appears to have made or be making a bid to get back into
The life of the feminine & back into her good graces but I do see that this week he is having
to earn her approval or earn his
Place back into her life because although the feminine may love him, she’s being seemingly
More cautious & thorough about the screening process, because this situation has brought the feminine pain before.
The feminine is taken on a journey through greater levels of self love this week as the masculine is asked to become
clear on exactly what it is that he wants. He’s given another opportunity this week to spin his destiny & arrive to the feminine, entirely open & ready to be raw. It doesn’t appear as if she’ll settle for anything less.
The most delicate, valuable part of the feminine’s heart is at stake here & she is asked to pause before making this decision about her next move. There’s parts of the masculine that he’ll have to confront that he does not wish to, if he is to understand why he can have everything he desires with the feminine, yet often lack the will to keep it.
Raw honesty is required of lovers this week & this means for both to confront themes that recurrently have been playing out in their lives. However this week goes divine lovers, you’re asked to look inward. This week’s lesson is in the message that the other has shown you. Don’t let projection steal that rhythm from
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